I have a dilemma.
Dec. 15th, 2003 06:06 pmAnd here it is. Please, help.
So there's the GSA dance on Thursday night. If I'm not going to a movie with Becky, Megan, Dana, Candy, Blake, and Sean, I'll be going to it. If I go to it, I'd like to have a date, and although Megan's offer was very kind, I'd like to have a date who's actually attracted to women, if possible.
So there's this girl. She's bi, or so I have been led to believe. And she's beautiful. And I would really, honestly, desperately like to go to the dance with her. (Look, I've had a crush on her since the first day of Cardinal Camp, all right? I was talking to Jenna, I turned around, and there across the multi-purpose room was this girl with pinkish hair and a plaid scrunchie and I was pretty much doomed right there and then.) Issue: she has no clue who in the fuck I am.
So... help? How do I get this insanely perfect girl to go to the dance with some chick whose name she doesn't even know?
So there's the GSA dance on Thursday night. If I'm not going to a movie with Becky, Megan, Dana, Candy, Blake, and Sean, I'll be going to it. If I go to it, I'd like to have a date, and although Megan's offer was very kind, I'd like to have a date who's actually attracted to women, if possible.
So there's this girl. She's bi, or so I have been led to believe. And she's beautiful. And I would really, honestly, desperately like to go to the dance with her. (Look, I've had a crush on her since the first day of Cardinal Camp, all right? I was talking to Jenna, I turned around, and there across the multi-purpose room was this girl with pinkish hair and a plaid scrunchie and I was pretty much doomed right there and then.) Issue: she has no clue who in the fuck I am.
So... help? How do I get this insanely perfect girl to go to the dance with some chick whose name she doesn't even know?
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Date: 2003-12-15 06:54 pm (UTC)i got nuthin kiddo.
i wish i knew. i guess, invite her to gsa events. recruit her for the club.(her reaction should tell you if she's bi or not) then get to know her better as a person, and she'll get to know you. that way you'll know if there's more than the physical attraction. what time frame do you have work with? if very short, then skip right to recruiting her for the gsa and then asking her to go to dance, nothing formal, could be taken as a just friends move. feel the situation out as you go. then again i tend to very cautious approaching crushes from a far.
is this the chick who had to transfer to bellaire on account of said pink hair?
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Date: 2003-12-15 08:35 pm (UTC)